Dating divorced women no kids
I was in the position to revisit my former decision never to have kids.And I realized that my position was not based on my former husband.I’ve known my entire adult life that I didn’t want kids. And then I ended up single and back on the dating scene at 32.My first husband was in agreement and volunteered to get a vasectomy at 22, soon after we were married (try finding a doc willing to do that procedure! An age where my body (as far as I know) could still have babies and many age-appropriate men either already had them or would soon want them.It’s not going to be easy, but it’s necessary for you to completely heal and move on.What you’re about to read is what I’ve learned by talking to hundreds of guys who have been through a divorce plus all of the research I have done over the years.
His entire refrigerator was categorized by shelves with its own Excel spreadsheet. I dated one man who whined about how women didn’t understand him, that everyone he cared for left him. All the women with any intelligence and self worth did leave when they figured out he was a narcissistic asswipe with the emotional maturity of a five year old.
And I was very up front (even on my Match profile) that I never wanted kids.
In fact, kid issue was one of the only deal breakers for a first date.
Some men tried to convince me that it was okay because they never saw their kid(s).
That only made it worse (trading dad for deadbeat dad…).