Dating and attraction tips
And while first dates can be fun and rewarding, there’s a bunch of differen behaviors and tricks you can be doing from one date to the next, in order to keep the momentum going and keep the interaction moving forward.
Behavior can vary between the first, second, and even third dates — which is why you always need to be on your game.
In male-female relationships and dating, while many men just want to marry women who are younger than them, some choose older ones for some reasons.
Put simply, a needy person doesn’t feel good inside and then saddles the other person with the responsibility to make them feel better… whoops, “my battery died, sorry I didn’t call you back last night.” Nobody’s perfect. When you boil it all down, neediness is not some set of behaviors. When a person takes on the belief that another person is responsible for their happiness, their sense of well-being and their sense of self-esteem, then it’s guaranteed that they’re going to act needy as a result of that mindset.
(FYI, we have a whole chapter on this in our new book “He’s Not That Complicated: How to Crack a Man’s Romantic Code to Get the Relationship You Want“) Even the kindest, most well-meaning, most empathetic guy won’t be able to satisfy a woman who acts needy the majority of the time. I would be pretty surprised if you never had a needy guy around you. Making someone else responsible for your emotions is a key ingredient in creating a toxic relationship type dynamic, so it’s very important to guard against doing that (as well as recognize when others are doing that towards you).
Dating an older woman is really awesome, so be open to this idea and try it out!
Kezia is the world’s leading female dating coach for men.